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Ladies Please live in NC. Older romantic Scottish gentleman former U.S. Marine with old school values who think women are special and should be treated that way. I am a widower of 3 years I was married for 32 years. God needed another Angel so after he let me have his sweetest, Kindest and most loving one for 32 years he took her home, this world had damaged her enought. It has been 5 years and I still miss her. Not looking to replace her (no one could) looking for someone new to start over with.

I am kind and sympathetic, merry and funny but serious and responsible at work. I don’t lie and can’t pretend. Honesty and trust are powerful things and I never see any reason to be less than straightforward, head games, drama queens and liars do not appeal to me. I love to show affection in public and at home, I can be sociable, shy, kind, whimsical, romantic, open-minded, eccentric, modest, have high principle, well-educated, can break the rules sometimes, well-brought up, active, proud, have a great sense of humor and likes to be a free thinking

I guess you'll just have to get to know me to find out who and what I am, but I can tell you this you'll not be disappointed.,

My values are simple God, Family, Country, Honor, Courage, and Commitment

Honor:-- Guides me to exemplify the ultimate in ethical and moral behavior. To be accountable for my actions; and to fulfill my obligations

Courage: -- Is the ability to do the right thing, in the right way , for the right reason. to adhere to a higher standard of personal conduct; lead by example; and make tough decisions.

Commitment: -- It inspires the unrelenting determination to achieve a higher standard of excellence in every endeavor.

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Dog(s)

Dog breedShe is a Tea Cup Blue Chihuahua -- she weighs just about 4 pounds and is spoiled rotten, she sleeps with her dad on the pillow just above my head or in the crook of my arm.

Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageScottish
BuildAthletic / toned
Height173 cm
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorSalt and pepper
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairGoatee
Best featureHair
Body ArtPierced... but only ear(s), Strategically placed tattoo
Health ConditionDiabetes
My AttractivenessAttractive

Situation

Relationship StatusWidowed
Has childrenChildren don't live with me
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsWith pet(s)
Wants to RelocateMaybe
Have PetsDog
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Doctorate
SpecialtyMilitary
Employment StatusRetired
Job TitleRetired -- Configuration Management SME to DoD

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesNews, Documentaries, Dramas, Movies, Science fiction
Favorite TV showsOutlander -- Game of Thrones -- Fox News -- Supernatural -- IZombie -- Grimm -- Of Kings and Prophets -- Castle -- Rizzoli & Isles -- I really do not enjoy setting home and watching TV but I also do not enjoy going out alone
Favorite movies typesAction, Science fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Family, Animation, Thriller
Favorite moviesToo many to list
Music typesCountry, Rock, Pop, Classical, Blues, Jazz, Latin, Ambient, Dance, Soul, Reggae, Gospel, Folk
Favorite artistsSarah Brightman, Andrea Bocelli, Josh Groban, Sarah Vaughan, The Charlie Daniels Band, Nat King Cole, Elvis, Barry White, Johnny Cash, Roy Orbison ,Johnny Mathis, Chicago, Benny Goodman, George Jones, Garth Brooks, Charley Pride, John Denver, Neil Sedaka,
Reading selectionAncient, Anthology, Classic, Fantasy, Fiction, History, Nature, Philosophy, Reference, Poetry, Science fiction, I'm an author
Favorite booksDon Quixote, White Fang, King James Bible, The Thorn Birds, Macbeth, The Fall of the House of Usher and Other tales, A Farewell to Arms, Of Mice and Men, For Whom the Bell Tolls, Hamlet, Wuthering Heights, The Old Man and the Sea, The Grapes of Wrath, Cal
Idea of funDoing whatever makes the lady I am with happy -- Or Molly and I going Camping
HobbiesExercising, Arts & Crafts, Reading, Learning, Music, Movies, Dancing, Dining, Photography, Cooking, Camping, Volunteering

Personality

SmokerQuitting smoking
DrinkingLight / social drinker
Social behaviorFriendly
Friends describe asFriendly
In High School I was a(n)Cool dude
Sense of humorGoofy
My great timeHanging out with friends, Staying at home, Trying new things, The movies, Relaxing, Reading a book, Going to a concert, Going to a museum
Always wanted to tryNothing -- I have done everything I have ever wanted to do with my late wife -- Now it is time to find out what I don't know so I can set new goals with a new person.

Views

Political viewsNot sure
ReligionWicca
Attend religious servicesNever
Goal in lifeTo be as happy as one person can be.

Life is waiting for your mark, Be it a blazing flame or, A tiny spark, Leave your mark, But not your scar

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great skills, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness, Passiveness
On the first dateWe could decide together – Remember a relationship starts with being friend’s first. After seeing each other there may be no chemistry, that would mean no first date.